1:1 Coaching With Carissa
Break Free From a Situationship in 30 Days Without Having a Panic Attack
For the old soul who is done with almost-love
Only a few spots open each month · 4 Private Sessions + Bonus Book
IMAGINE THIS.....
You wake up next to a sexy hunk of a man who has zero confusion about you. The morning light is coming through the curtains and his big body is curled around yours like you are his missing puzzle piece. He stirs, pulls you closer before you've even opened your eyes, not out of habit, not out of loneliness but because you're HIS.
No spiraling. No chasing. No decoding silence at 11pm.
Your body is calm and wildly turned on for the first time in your life.
You bring all of you: the intensity, the passion, the fire, and he stays.
You're not surviving love anymore. You're building it...together.
SOUND FAMILIAR?
You’re powerful, spiritual and somehow still here.
You check your phone 40 times an hour waiting for a text from a man who didn’t even claim you yesterday.
You sent a passive aggressive text, immediately regret it, then panic for the next three days, trying to figure out how to un say it without looking crazy.
You’ve convinced yourself he just needs more time, so you wait, hint and hope while he gets every benefit of a relationship while carrying none of the weight.
You’ve done things we’re not proud of to keep a man around.
You’ve stayed in situations that were slowly hollowing you out because their almost love felt better than being alone.
The men who treat you well feel suffocating. The one to keep you guessing feels like passion. You know it’s backwards. You can’t stop.
Your spiritually aware, deeply intuitive, done the work. And you’re still here.
You're not "too much".
You're not crazy.
You're dysregulated. There's a difference.
You’re an old soul who survived a childhood that was never supposed to be easy because you came here to feel the full weight of lovelessness so you’d have the hunger and the will to change your love story completely.
That wasn’t punishment. That was your initiation.
And this isn’t your first situationship. Which means you know that wanting better isn’t enough. You’re still here.
I don’t teach you how to be less. I teach you how to regulate a fiery nervous system so safe love stops feeling boring and unavailable men stop feeling magnetic.
From Carissa
I'm not here to fix you.
I'm here to recalibrate you.
Watch this 1.5 min video to see if we're a good fit
About Carissa
I wasn't just stuck in situationships.
I was the woman having panic attacks over men who didn't even want me.
Burning bridges, crying in empty parking lots, and still going back for more. I had the fiery nervous system. The narcissistic mother. Chronic health/mental illness. The toxic relationships. The patterns I could see clearly but couldn't stop repeating.
I was spiritually aware, emotionally intelligent, and completely addicted to men who wouldn't fully choose me. I called it passion. It was a trauma response.
And then I did the work, not the "journal your feelings" kind. The kind that goes into your nervous system, your subconscious mind, your self identity.
I had to rewire what love felt like in my body.
Now I have the man who rocks me like a baby when I unravel. Who claims me publicly and privately. Who stays when I bring ALL of me. And loves even the ugliest parts of me.
I'm not here to be your therapist. I'm here to be your proof.
"I want a man who can handle me."
Babe, do you know what you're asking for? You're asking a man to stay steady while you unravel. To hold space when your trauma is loud. To choose patience over ego.
That's not bare minimum. That's advanced masculinity."
— Carissa
Which One Are You?
There are four patterns I see in women stuck in almost-love.
All four of these women have one thing in common: Emotional safety in love.
They want a relationship where their nervous system can finally relax instead of constantly scanning for abandonment. One of these is running your love life right now.
01
The Untamed Feminine
She feels everything at full intensity. The connection is electric, the highs are intoxicating. But when triggered, she explodes. Says the thing she can't take back. Sends the text she'll regret for three days. She doesn't want to burn it down. She just doesn't know how to stop.
02
The Devoted One
She loves hard and gives everything, consistently, loyally, without reservation. She believes if she just shows up enough he'll finally choose her. He doesn't. She gives more.
03
The Heart-Led Healer
She sees the wounded man underneath the unavailable one and believes her love can fix him. She's drawn to complexity, intensity, and potential. She calls it love. It's actually a pattern.
04
The Embodied Oracle
She's done the work, knows her patterns, and can read a room in seconds but still finds herself here. Fiercely self-sufficient on the outside, starving to be held on the inside. Because knowledge without nervous system regulation is just expensive self-awareness.
"Your anger is inherited. Your intensity is ancestral. And your nervous system is not the enemy. You just need a new design for living."
THE OFFER
30-Day Identity Upgrade:
Become HER
4 Sessions— $350 For the woman who is done with almost-love and ready to become someone who never ends up here again.
Four private 1:1 sessions over 30 days. We go into your nervous system, your subconscious, your identity and we rewire what love feels like in your body at the root. Not just what you think about love. What your body believes about it. You leave as a different woman. The kind unavailable men can't figure out how to keep and secure men can't walk away from.
Single Session — $99 For the woman who needs clarity right now.
One 60-minute private session. We diagnose your nervous system pattern, identify exactly what's keeping you stuck, and build a real strategy for what to do next. You leave with clarity. Not homework. Not "just leave him." Clarity.
Week 01
Nervous System Stabilization
We stop the spiral at the root. You learn to regulate the fight-or-flee responses that have been running your love life since childhood.
Week 02
Situationship Detox + Communication Reset
We get clear on what's actually happening, what you really want, and how to speak it without exploding or collapsing.
Week 03
Standards + Identity Shift
You made a decision to never settle again. Now we wire that decision into your subconscious so your nervous system enforces it automatically.
Week 04
Secure Embodiment + Dating Recalibration
You step into HER, the fiery, regulated, undeniable woman that secure men pursue and unavailable men can't figure out how to keep.
In 30 days you will:
Know your own body- when it's real chemistry or a trauma response, you'll feel the difference instantly.
Speak with authority- your words will land with power, not desperation. He'll feel the difference.
Own your standards- you made the decision to never settle again, and that decision rewired your subconscious. Your nervous system no longer recognizes crumbs as an option. This is who you are now.
Feel magnetic alone- your peace, your joy, your wholeness will stop depending on his next move.
Make clear decisions- leave or require more. You'll know which with zero guilt and zero spiral.
Become HER- the fiery, regulated, undeniable woman who finally walks away from what was never enough and never looks back.
✦ Included Free — A $22 Value
Feminine Ways:
Bring Him to His F*cking Knees
The word-for-word guide for fiery women, what to say when you're activated, triggered, or about to blow it, so you keep your power and the connection at the same time.
This is not a book for your situationship. This is for after. For when you've done the identity work, left what wasn't serving you, and a real man, one who actually wants to claim you, shows up. That's when this book becomes your secret weapon.
Digital book · Yours free with coaching · The book he'll never know exists.
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Women Who Did the Work
Real women. Real results.
You've cried yourself to sleep enough times.
You've sent enough texts you regret.
You've waited long enough
to be fully chosen.
It ends here.
You didn't come here for almost-love. You came here for the real thing.
Book your spot now. Every spot is personal. Limited every month.
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EPIC LOVE LEGACY
🌹 FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
1. Is this for me?
If you are a fiery, old-soul woman who keeps ending up in situationships with men who won't fully claim you, yes. If you're spiritually aware, emotionally intelligent, and completely exhausted from almost-love- yes. If you're looking for someone to tell you to just heal more, journal your feelings, and be patient, this is not for you.
2. I've tried therapy and other coaching. Why will this be different?
Because most therapy and coaching works on your mindset. We work on your nervous system. There is a difference. You can think your way into understanding your patterns all day long and still go home and text him. That's not a willpower problem. That's a subconscious wiring problem. Until you rewire what love feels like in your body at a cellular level you will keep choosing the same man with a different name. That's what we fix here.
3. I don't even know if I'm in a situationship. How do I know I need this?
If you are confused about how he feels about you, that's your answer. A man who wants you makes it simple. He claims you. He shows up. He stays. Confusion is not chemistry. Confusion is a no. If you've been waiting, hinting, hoping, and wondering, you're in a situationship. And you're in the right place.
4. What actually happens in these sessions?
Week one we stabilize your nervous system and stop the spiral at the root. Week two we get clear on what's actually happening in your situation, what you really want, and how to communicate it without exploding or collapsing. Week three we do the identity work, we wire your new standards into your subconscious so your nervous system enforces them automatically. Week four you step into HER. The regulated, undeniable woman that secure men pursue and unavailable men can't figure out how to keep. Every session is private, one on one, and built entirely around you.
5. What if I'm still in a situationship when we start?
Good. That's exactly where I want you. You don't need to have it figured out before we begin. You don't need to have already left. You just need to be done pretending it's enough. We do the work from exactly where you are and clarity about what to do with him will come naturally as your nervous system starts to regulate. Most women know what they need to do within the first two weeks. They just finally have the nervous system to do it.
6. Will this work if I've been in this pattern my whole life?
Especially then. The longer the pattern has been running the more deeply it's wired into your subconscious which means it has nothing to do with your intelligence, your self-awareness, or how hard you've tried. It is a neurological pattern. And neurological patterns can be rewired at any age. I was in this pattern for the first half of my life. I rewired it. I have the husband. If it worked for the woman who was faking pregnancies to keep men around, it will work for you.
7. Why is it only 30 days?
Because you don't need more time. You need the right work. Most women have been in therapy for years and are still in the same patterns because they're working on the wrong level. We go directly into your nervous system and your subconscious, the two places that are actually running your love life. Thirty days is enough to interrupt the pattern, rewire the identity, and step into a completely different woman. The results are not temporary. When your subconscious finally believes you are worthy of real love — your entire nervous system reorganizes around that belief. What you attract changes. What you tolerate changes. Who you become changes.
8. What is your refund policy?
I don't offer refunds and here's why. This is not a course you consume passively. This is a private one on one container that requires your full commitment. When you book your spot you are taking it from someone else who needs it. What I will promise you is this, I show up completely for every single session. I bring everything I have. And I have never had a woman do this work fully and walk away unchanged. If you are not ready to be fully committed to your own transformation this is not the right investment right now. If you are, book your spot.
